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waring

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2011-02-08 18-46-14

How do you start over after 11 1/2 years? Never dreamed I'd have to feel this way again, have these old but familiar worries from my younger years. Don't even know where to start. I trusted her too much.
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2011-02-11 10-54-24

One foot in front of the other Seriously. First work on you, get some firm footing, reclaim some old hobbies. Worry about the rest later.
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2011-02-12 22-52-27

I don't even know who I am anymore is the problem. We moved 7 years ago and sad as this sounds I never even took the time to make friends as we did everything together and pretty much excluded ourselves from the world.
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  • Carissa

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    2011-02-19 19-57-52

    make a list of what you did before her. things that were fun or have good memories of.
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  • bole

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    2011-03-07 6-34-43-

    um that might be a bit hard.............you see I don't know what I did before her other than I was busy raising 2 daughters on my own. We finished that job together and my are grown and several states away. Ugh mid life crisis at it's worst.
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  • cimorelli

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    2011-04-12 2-16-02-

    I totally understand I did the same damn thing. First things first. Vow to never do that to yourself again. Then, foot forward. It takes time to unravel and sort and figure things out again, but it can be d I know. I did it.
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    christa

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    2011-04-22 15-24-01

    I'm glad to hear there's life on the other side. It's been over since May xrd and although I don't cry anymore (kinda going through that whole pissed off thing now) I just don't know what to even do with myself. At x I feel so old. Blah
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    kegler

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    2011-07-04 2-18-59-

    It is hard to start from scratch, at x and with (although yours are grown). Again, I get it. I'm x and was staying home with my for years too. Seriously, you can do it.
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    2011-08-07 6-09-38-

    I'm sorry for your loss- -you can start over again. Grieve the lost relationship and explore new things that make you happy. For me it was exercise, yoga and classes at my local community college. I also puposefully moved in with lesbian roommates so that I could at least have the company of other lesbians. You will eventually smile again, and be gentle with yourself in the meantime. Take care.
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    2011-08-24 0-13-26-

    Thanks for the sweet words of advice.
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    borges

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    2011-09-18 7-20-50-

    It sucks and it is hard, and then each and every day it gets a little bit better. Till day you can at least see that there is potential. But ya start by remembering to get up and breathe and be happy for the day. Take care of your mental health first. Go for walks, a jog, exercise class. Anything to keep stimulated. Then ya make some friends, don't just make or two, make a whole bunch. Go out with them, stay in with them for movies, etc. Just get social. Soon you will start to see your own personality develop again. Then comes a sweet feeling of 'hey, I know her' she is me and I like her. You'll start to date, you'll screw up. Realize it isn't the end of the world and pretty soon you are happy with the single you. I can't tell ya how it ends 'cause I'm only this far.... My best to you.
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  • devendorf

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    2011-11-10 18-43-08

    Yeah the whole breathe in breathe out is getting easier. I did start exercising at the gym but I swear I have yet to make any connections with people. It's hard to start from scratch. I don't go to the bar and I don't know any other women. The only folks I socialize with at all are my co-workers (all straight) but even that has limits as all of them are younger and all have young ......... Back in the day I would have drug my unhappy, lonely butt to the bar where I didn't lack for friends (or more) but these days, well it's been years since I've been anywhere.
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    2011-12-27 16-59-16

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    2012-02-18 1-51-15-

    Thanks again for all the kind words of advice You guys rock. I just recently tuned into and found this group totally by accident. I'm glad I did. You guys seem to have a lot of fun topics you discuss. Right now I can use some good conversation with like minded folks even if they are all far away. Hopefully I will get back on my feet and meet some gals loy for some face to face conversations too. I think I'm still reeling a bit that this is where my life is at. I'm sur reality will set in soon enough.
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  • wixom

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    2012-04-24 15-27-17

    I've heard a good rule of thumb is give yourself x month for every year you were in a relationship to get over the relationship. For you, that would be almost a year. Don't beat yourself up if you're not ready for dating for another year, that's OKAY! And normal! But yes, get out, make friends, rediscover the things that you love to do, find some hobbies, go hiking or kayaking, get out, enjoy your city, but most importantly, give yourself time to heal. You're going to be fine.
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    2012-04-30 8-09-30-

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    2012-05-05 22-37-41

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    2012-05-25 3-17-56-

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