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beagles

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2011-02-08 7-57-27-

if you really feel like it is a deal breaker... ...then the whole thing off. It seems like you want to be ok with it...what is making it such a big deal for you?
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2011-02-10 8-25-30-

I do want to be ok with it Because it seems like it would be really fun. It's just the thought of him fucking her. I've never thought of myself as a jealous person, but I think it would bother me. Maybe if I'm fucking the other guy at the same time, it wouldn't be such a big deal because I wouldn't notice so much?
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2011-02-10 10-50-38

i think you might be better off... ...decideing if other activities(ie oral) are ok...rather than trying to distract yourself with cock...grin
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2011-02-12 1-46-49-

It's so easy to get distracted by cock. Mmmmmmmm... Cock.... I think I'd be ok with oral. That really doesn't bother me.
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2011-02-13 5-21-36-

then put the .... ...'no tab A into slot B' ristriction on things and see if your bf is ok with that...also relize 2 things: 1. you may change your mind mid-party and let him hit it 2. no matter what goes on, you may be unhappy with how things went afterward and both these things are ok...you just gotta talk it out so you can improve next time(or decide there wont be a next time) it realy is just like any other sexual activity, just more complex, cuz more folks are involved
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2011-02-13 7-08-13-

a natural feeling, but you should get over it makes total sense, especially if he hasn't had much sex and you've taught him stuff. it's difficult to see someone else getting your significant other off when you're used to being the sole source of pleasure. It was difficult for me to get over, but once I did it went from very uncomfortable to very hot. Worth the effort.
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  • hanger

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    2011-02-24 7-28-29-

    Yes, you're being selfish, but that isn't always a bad thing. It depends on you and your relationship. The deal changed. You were ok with the terms originally, but you got a bait and switch, so to speak. You can also try playing with the knowledge that you can stop anything when you're bothered.
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    2011-03-04 5-27-56-

    this is why... ...you get what all is ok and not ok worked out in advance...also, you need to be talking to the other girl
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    2011-04-07 20-25-23

    Agreed. But even after all the talking is done, she may want to (if they agree to go on and have the foursome) make sure that everyone knows that she holds the right (as does everyone) to stop things mid-play without any repercussions from any
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    2011-04-15 8-34-34-

    There's nothing that says you have to be ok with your boyfriend having sex with another woman even if you're having sex with another man and/or another woman. Would he be ok if the whole scene was all about you having sex with the three of them w/o him and the other woman hooking up at all?
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    2011-06-29 8-31-06-

    Hmmmm... I'm not sure. Honestly, I haven't talked to the other girl at all, so I don't know how she feels about it either. I don't think I'd mind them doing oral or anything; just the sex. Would I be horribly selfish if I limited him to no sex with her?
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    2011-08-02 4-56-40-

    I think you should stop thinking about this in terms of selfishness. Most men won't see a way where they're "only" getting a blow job as such a bad thing ;)
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    2011-08-17 0-49-48-

    Just think about what will happen First, you'll see your bf look longingly at the new girl as she stips off her clothes. He'll take in her breasts, her pussy. Sometime, he will cup her breasts in his hands, maybe suck on them until the nips are hard (are they bigger than yours?) Later, she will spread her legs and he will enter her, his butt moving up and down, as she starts to moan in a voice you'll never forget. He'll pull out, still wet with her, and put his cock in your mouth, giving you a taste of her. You'll never forget his look, will you, or her taste.
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  • basnight

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    2011-09-25 12-16-20

    That sounds aweful. I doubt her breasts are bigger than mine. Maybe I'm a more jealous person than I thought I was.
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    2011-11-17 5-53-01-

    Would it matter if her breasts were bigger, or her body more fit, or her hair more lush...if it does, you may want to seriously consider backing off. What happens if she takes his balls into her mouth and he moans; what if she opens her legs and he shoves his tongue there, toying with her clit while she runs her hands through his hair; what if he blurts out that he's never had it this good, while at the same time you've got the other guy's cock tickling the back of your throat while he skull fucks you.
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    2011-11-19 7-46-44-

    why are you being such a fuckhead?
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    2012-01-07 14-02-44

    I was thinking it's more repression gone berserk.
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    2012-02-14 6-56-47-

    It would bother me if he said he's never had it this good. But I know him, and I really doubt he would say that. I'm not into humiliation, and that would go along those lines. But otherwise, no, oral really wouldn't bother me.
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    2012-02-25 4-26-39-

    it's more likely he'll be singing *your* praises for being GGG. Most men I've encountered in threesome scenarios understand about cutting their nose off to spite their face.
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    2012-05-07 20-30-12

    Ok, that sounds really hot to me.
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    2012-08-06 14-10-04

    while it's good to consider all possible reactions, this troll is just being an asshole for the sake of assholery. Pay him no mind.
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    2012-10-02 15-08-45

    some women like it when their boyfriends get hard simply because another woman stripped her clothes off in front of them. Some women even like it if he jerks off while she watches and he talks about fucking someone else. it's all YMMV.
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    2012-10-09 11-22-15

    Only total perverts would do things like that.
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    2012-11-24 7-19-19-

    But total perverts are the only kind of perverts I like ;)
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    2013-01-09 4-46-32-

    Ah, my eternal conundrum... This has been an ongoing battle with me in our explorations with other men. Other women don't trigger my jealousy, for whatever reasons. Couples don't really either, so I guess its a bit of insecurity that some guy'll steal her away, though I really don't believe that. The harder part is how open my wife is with any possible situations. I sometimes feel inadequate due to my inability to be the same way. I feel like there is something wrong with me, that I can't just let it go, and let the pleasure be pleasure. I've found that, so far, the first step has really been the hardest. Communication, as always, is key. Ask for the reassurances you need, explain how you're feeling, and try to get down to why. What fear does it trigger? So far, each experience with other guys was followed by much processing of feelings, sharing of thoughts that went through our heads before, during, and after, and followup later that has usually included another boundary discussion to see if any of them have changed. So, after all that, yes, I do think it is a bit selfish...at least that's part of how I always feel about it. But that feeling is a pointer to deeper issues, in my experience. If you aren't comfortable, at least loosely, with the scenario, don't go through with it. Talk about everything a lot before going in, and try to imagine the kinds of situations that may occur, and what feelings they may evoke. You can never guess everything, or sometimes anything, but it can be a good exercise for ironing things out going into something. This is fresh in my head right now after our weekend escapades, where my wife showed her openness and non-jealousy in spades, again, and has me rethinking, yet again.
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    2013-01-20 17-34-15

    Yes, but that's ok. You're entitled to feel whatever you feel. I personally really liked watching my ex fuck other women. I never had a jealous reaction to that. I considered the other women my friends, and I'm all about sharing things I enjoy with my friends! What if he were fucking her from behind while she was going down on you, and you and he could maintain eye contact throughout the encounter? Is it just the idea of him fucking her that bothers you? Are you ok with other interaction between them, like her giving him a BJ, or there being hand and/or toy play? Sex can be defined pretty broadly. It's totally common for multi-partnered sex to not involve traditional intercourse at all, or for certain pairings within the group to do more than other pairings. You guys just need to set up your ground rules before you play. But you've also got to be willing to agree to not do things he might find upsetting. It doesn't have to be quid-pro-quo to be "fair". It also doesn't have to be "fair". Also -- just don't do it if you really don't want to. You have the right to determine what and who you do with your body ;) But if you want to -- stopping everything if you get uncomfortable is perfectly reasonable. Just think of it like having a safeword. If something feels icky, you have every right to discontinue. Trust me, the other people would rather have you be engaged and know you are enjoying yourself, than just have you go through the motions.
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    2013-02-25 6-13-10-

    I've personally found that eroticizing sexual jealousy can make for really hot threesome (and moresome) sex.
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    2013-03-24 4-15-04-

    maybe this is a sign of something good Maybe your feelings for your boyfriend are growing stronger. Maybe before your relationship was mostly based on the physical, but you are falling in love with him more and the thought of sharing him is repulsive because their is something very very very intimate about exclusivity. Maybe you should ask yourself, is having him exclusively to myself worth being exclusive with him? Maybe you want this relationship to move beyond physical. Maybe you should say to your boyfriend that you have been thinking about it and that your feelings for him are different than with other guys. You want him and him al You don't need anyone else and you don't want anyone else involved. Just you two. Maybe that's what's going on? If so, that ain't bad, that's good. Just tell him. It should be flattering to him. Maybe I'm completely wrong, though, and you don't feel that way.
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    2013-03-25 20-44-47

    I like that idea We are defintely growing closer and stronger as a couple. But we were already exclusive before this. I don't date or sleep with other guys or anything like that. This started out as fulfilling his fantasy, but then turned into a fantasy of mine.
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