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canepa

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2015-07-03 18-55-39

counseling question I work with a guy who has been having an affair, he's ended that and wants to work on his marriage. But he's not going to tell his wife about the affair. (That's a given here, not the point of discussion. He's NOT telling her,that's his decision.) Counseling seems in the works and I'm wondering if he can/should tell the counselor about the affair and not have the counselor tell her. Onhand the counselor needs all the info available to help, right? And him having an affair is a big deal. But are they obligated to share everything? Better for only the counselor to know or for noto know? And again, telling her isn't part of the solution, not at this point.
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2015-08-11 10-11-24

The counselor will not keep that secret.
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2015-08-20 11-37-53

Some counselors have you sign a lake elsinore sluts plan and it may state in the hot nude singles plan that everything is shared or that anything saidonis kept from the spouse. He does need to be honest with his wife because counseling or not the cheating might be a deal breaker.
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2015-08-29 20-39-49

Depends on what issues they are addressing in counseling. The affair could have been a response to a problem -- not the problem itself.
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  • albanese

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    2015-09-23 15-38-50

    counselor should only see them together. so the question is moot. if he sees the counselor by himself first, his spouse will always wonder if the counselor is more on his side than hers. and if they kept a secret for the husband, they WOULD be more on his side than hers. so either he tells both, or neither.
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  • mallon

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    2015-09-28 20-04-21

    Counselor's job is to not take sides If the counselor is taking sides, she is bad counselor, and the couple should find someone else.
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    harrower

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    2015-10-24 4-30-25-

    the counselor can see them separately individual sessions often compliment joint sessions. i guess you've never had any sort of counseling or maybe you'll say that you are a counselor, in which you are a shitty retarded counselor. i love the interweb!
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    gonyer

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    2015-10-30 9-38-39-

    Here's what I know: when we took our son for individual and family counseling, the therapist made it clear that she would NOT disclose to us things that he wanted to keep confidential (unless there was a life-or-death emergency, of course). We were then free to choose someone else, if we wanted to. If the therapist is seeing them individually and jointly, he should ask what her policy is over things that are said in individual sessions. Generally, a therapist will NOT share what is said in individual sessions unless the person gives permission, but different therapists may have different rules for couples horny women looking to get laid . He needs to ask upfront.
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    2015-12-20 21-41-02

    I can see why the counselor might need that info, but I fail to see how the counselor could use it without bringing it up to the wife. And I think the counselor wouldn't be doing his job if he didn't use it. So it's both or neither.
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    canepa

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    2016-03-31 13-11-57

    If he doesnt want the wife to know he should NOT tell the counselor. In order for a secret lie to remain a secret lie.. He has to keep it to himself. But to add my opinion. He is a jackass.
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